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Journal Entry: Wed Jan 16, 2013, 2:42 AM


I bet that caught your attention, now read, peasants! :

Someone asked me this question on tumblr:
your are so nice and talented hehe btw im just curious, do you also like boys? hehe i asks cuz i see on your page that you like 1 direction too :D"

My answer:
"woooh look at me flaming bisexual! LOL funny question. To be honest, i don't really say it that way. Reason? I see people as people. I don't see them as boys or girls, or thin or overweight, or tall or short. I see people as people and I'm attracted to them by more personal attributes such as personality. I guess if that considers me being attracted to the male species then so be it. I never really cared, or talked about it, but yes I guess so! I am a 12 year old girl when it comes to 1D , I cant help myself, sorry lol. I grew up mainly being around females so i guess that made me more of an androgynous character and have certain attractions to guys. I just think this whole topic is so over thought, however, which makes me feel dumb answering. You know, back in the day white people used to think coloured people were a disgrace. They got over that and think racism is a complete pathetic movement now. I think in the next generation, homophobes will look at it the same way and think "wow i cant believe people used to think homosexuality was bad"."

I thought it was funny that someone could automatically think this because of my liking for one direction (ya know, no one said that about the backstreet boys) but I guess in this generation only girls can like music. But I think this whole thing of gay or straight is so darn bland. Can we get over it? Like, for example, when someone tells another that they are homosexual/ bisexual, people call it "coming out". COMING OUT? That is so pathetic. It shouldn't be something you have to HIDE. When I was in high school, a class mate was talking about herself and referred herself as male and female in spirit, then my friend turned to me and said, "Did she just admit to being bi?". DARLING, it is not ADMITTING. It's like telling someone you have black hair, ooooh you're admitting to having black hair? LOL no, you're just telling something about yourself. I mean, how are people ever going to move past homophobia if people don't express their true selves and spread a good message around the world? If you ever met me in person, I am quite flamboyant. I am sarcastic 90% of the time, I am always making people laugh, and I never shut up. I am probably the loudest, most annoying person you'd ever met. I understand how people automatically assume I am a flaming homosexual, because I am not like a regular jocky guy. i am a SASS QUEEN. But I am just being me? I mean come on lol. I like girls, and I like guys. Cross that out. I LIKE HUMANS.

We really have so little time to deal with negativity in life. We are who we are, every single thing about us is perfect. There is no one on earth like you. Everyone is unique and beautiful, and to the people who are constantly trying to bring others down, they are just trying to make themselves feel better by bring others below them. Dont listen to those people. they will learn later in life. For every 1 person that dislikes you, there are 10 more that love you. Keep that in mind, and just go do you. Make your mark on this world because we have one shot at ultimate happiness and there is ZERO time to waste! PREACH.

  • Mood: Love
  • Listening to: Kiss You- One Direction
  • Reading: One Direction Blogs
  • Watching: One Direction interviews
  • Playing: One direction's Album
  • Eating: One directions faces
  • Drinking: One Direction's-- no, that's too far.
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MoodyBlue Featured By Owner Nov 2, 2013  Hobbyist Digital Artist
"I see people as people. I don't see them as boys or girls, or thin or overweight, or tall or short. I see people as people and I'm attracted to them by more personal attributes such as personality." :clap:

Make your words as my words! :)

How many people are so stupid in the XXI Century!
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Jad-Ardat Featured By Owner Nov 3, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
Exactly! Thanks so much for understanding.
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randomlypsycho Featured By Owner Jan 16, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
that was an amazing rant!
and i completely agree with the whole 'coming out' thing, people who are straight dont have to 'come out' so why should anyone else, people should have to hide who they are and no one should be judge on what is out of their control, the people around me know i like both genders and i have no plan on 'coming out'
also from what you said it sounds like you're pansexual, which basically means that you're gender-blind, that you like people for who they are and not what sex they are
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Jad-Ardat Featured By Owner Jan 16, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
yeah i guess i am, i just dont like to label myself haha, but its true . I guess people automatically assume someone is straight when they meet someone else, with no open mind.
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randomlypsycho Featured By Owner Jan 16, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
yeah, but these days its either pick a label or be judge even more...
yeah, i actually didn't differentiate between sexualities till year 7 cause i grew up with both being normal, i'm so use to it i don't assume what sexuality people are
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Peach-Chu Featured By Owner Jan 16, 2013   General Artist
you are on a roll of great journal enteries lately.
im all about the percentage. there is like 1% who are fully straight or fully gay but everyone else is a mix
people when it comes to sexuality are ridiculous though... honestly. its no big deal
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Jad-Ardat Featured By Owner Jan 16, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
lol i wish i could just bake a cake full of rainbows and butterflies and we could all just eat it together. I just have a lot of feelings.
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xsebby-chu93 Featured By Owner Jan 16, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
you know Jad, you make a very good point!
This reminds of this incident i had a while back. i was browsing an artist in dA, who was very skilled and talented in making
detailed cute-girl drawings. i learned the artist was a male, and i made no big deal out of it. there are a handful of fangirls who draw only
boys, so why can't there be fanboys who draw girls?
so i posted a status on my facebook about it,
and this friend of mine was like, "eww, he must be gay, guys can't draw girls"
and im was like mindblown. like seriously? people need to get over it, guys can be fans of things like 1D and Bieber and whatnot.
Girls are, so why can't boys? i dont understand some ppl's mindsets ;\!
im glad you made a post about this Jad! :D
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Jad-Ardat Featured By Owner Jan 16, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
And the fact that they say "he must be gay" WHATS YOUR POINT? And I see these posts on twitter its like a picture of a girls chest and its like "how to find out if you're gay. If you read this before staring at the boobs, i have some bad news for you.." how exactly is finding out you're gay BAD news? its not bad AT ALL. err i just wish people could understand haha
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xsebby-chu93 Featured By Owner Jan 17, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
same here, those posts are so annoying!
maybe some ppl are just curious.. XD
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